I take you (
Brides Name) to be my lawful wife, to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health while we both shall live? Whoa! Marriage, to cleave to another human being, to commit my mind, body, and soul to a woman, to know her love for me will be everlasting. Why would someone not want to have a safety blanket? Marriage should be an objective in every one's life. Marriage, while definitely a long-term goal, is surely one of my goals.
To begin with, most may be lucky enough to have a mother whom may love them unconditionally, but imagine if you were to be able to share that love with another, or be able to take that love and mold into a variety of things. For example a family, a nice house, a family empire, heart-warming memories in old age. For someone to find a significant other is surely a blessing. To have someone whom after you have long abandoned the care, and or protection of your mother, still be there to comfort and nurture you and help you piece together the jigsaw puzzle of life is a marvelous thing to have.
Additionally, the nervous feeling you receive when you fall head over heels in love is stupendous. It has to be a great thing when you have a spouse whom thinks like you, acts like you, shares the same interests, and yet is the total opposite. What a feeling to know that no matter what someone will lay down their life, or endure brutal punishment to see to it you are content. The world wind of emotions a wife can make a man feel, or vice-versa, is absolutely amazing.
On the other hand, according to the daily beast, If you are a married American, your marriage is between 40 and 50 percent likely to end in divorce. Marriage these days means nothing many may argue, but ignorance should be ignored. I mean love is not based on silly calculations and equations being keyed into calculators or computers. Love is an instinct.
In the end, I feel marriage will help me grow and would be a very serious, yet rewarding step in my "FAR" future. I hope one day i may be able to experience the joys of the married life. I wish everyone could.